My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two years now and we love each other endlessly. Both of us are struggling with depression along with some other individual stuff and we aren't really able to see each other in person a lot so there's a ton of fighting that happens over text about life sucking...i really do care deeply and i know he wouldn't be safe if we took a break or broke up. What do i do??
Top Answer 1
I know that you love him, and is worried about him. But u have to think about yourself, about your limits. Try to talk with him and change is vision about life, about the world, about people in general. I think that you and him deserve to be happy, but in the way that things is going, this relationship is not gonna bring good feelings for you and him
If you stay in this relationship u are gonna just make things worse
Better it happen now and u and him stay friends than you keep prolonging this situation and like the other guy say you or him suffer physical injuries.
So keep calm, and talk with your boyfriend. Good luck :)
Top Answer 2
You know... I think this is the point at which you both have to decide what kind of relationship you want. What I mean by that is obviously you could just tap out, parting ways and maybe he'd be fine with that, I don't know. But, I would just find that... selfish.
Alternatively, what you could do... the both of you... is to decide to be in it for the other.
Long term, healthy relationships are mostly not about ego, they are about selflessness, about bringing out the best in each other.
You both seem to have issues with life in general... why not help each other with those issues? Instead of fighting over them.
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