After being closed in my own imagined world for a long time and being left alone without any support I have finally found best friend who's in similar age to mine. He's constantly been trying to help me in my difficult situation but he sometimes doesn't know how in some moments. He offered a lot of help to me in many different situations. Is seems like he's only person who's able to understand very well my specific character. He's only person who I trust.
Unfortunately, I have problems with working in teams, negotiations, talking in groups, social skills etc. He understands problems with my social abilities but other people not.
Therefore, if I could find person who understands my social problems, is it necessary to look for psychologist? Can I trust psychologist as my best friend? Does matter whether I'll pay for private psychologist or I'll find psychologist working on a national health fund contract? Should I go to individual therapy or only group therapy?
Top Answer
- It's very normal to ask this question, especially in your case. See
your social skills like a muscle! You are probably rusted, or maybe you
never trained. But the more you talk to your friend or someone else, the
more you will be able to interact with people easily.
I don't think you need a psychologist, you probably just need to take it easy, even if it's hard.
I hope that at some point, you will realize what i'm trying to explain to you!
Don't worry, be happy! - Why do you even need a psychologist? And, please... consider that question seriously.
Because you have described nothing which would really require the attention of a psychologist. Having trouble working in teams is perfectly normal, there are a lot of people that are simply not as comfortable with social situations as others are.
Perfectly normal. It does not necessarily require a psychologist.