But since she's still in love, she does not want to split up, I'm not in a position to give her advice. How can I end her relationship without hurting her too much, but she's going to get rid of him anyway?
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Very crude, albeit eloquent generalization. First of all, you're making gross assumptions about the girl in question. The OP mentioned hardly anything about her specifically. So, we cannot assume she is immature or, as you so rudely put it, mentally sick.We know literally nothing of this girl. For all we know, her boyfriend is literally 6'8", 300 lbs, a literal mountain of flesh that would be very hard to either ignore or get away from. We don't know this. We do not have nearly enough information to pass any sort of judgement on this girl.
I can tell you have had some negative experiences with women. Do not use that to generalize women. Not all women are villainous. In fact, most aren't.
By the way, this is coming from the perspective of someone who is married to a woman who would probably not have met your standards. A bipolar woman with a history of psychotic episodes and drug abuse. And all it took for her to turn all of that around... was an actual hero. Me. And what did I find after dusting off all that bullshit she had put herself through?
Pure gold.
Do not generalize. Do not pass judgement without knowing the full story. It is immature at best to do so, and, in my personal opinion, very foolish.
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